First we try to find out what are the main reasons for the lack of confidence. The main motive is that the feeling of inferiority to others, the believe that we think we have many weaknesses than other people. For example we are not enough confident to speak in a meeting because we think our role is stupid and others might laugh about what we say. We have not enough trust about ourselves. We think others are far better than us. We do not ask someone out to dinner because we think they expect someone better and we are not good enough for them.
This can create unhappiness and an unsuccessful life.
The first step is to realize that we are all equal and we have the equal rights to get respect and importance. We need to inspire ourselves to believe that we have the quality that others’ have and even if we don’t have a particular quality that doesn’t matter and we must not feel shy about that. Everyone is not perfect in all qualities and it is not necessary to gain perfectness in all qualities to be success in life. Be proud at what we have and think we also can do if we want. If you do something wrong don’t worry, be a more careful in the future and don’t regret for the past.
